Just like the accusations that (some? all?) people are making up their happy perfect lives, there’s also no doubt bloggers who are either dramatizing or possibly even making up their own drama so that they have something to write about. Some people who seem as if their lives are trainwrecks seem that way not because they necessarily have horrible things happening to them, but because, like the (possibly fictional) “perfect” bloggers, they want attention. They love being thanked for their “honest” and “raw” posts.
So they talk about fighting with their horrible lazy awful partners. They talk about their horrible children. They talk about their problems with money that they have created by taking on too much debt. Some (that you will occasionally read news stories about) go so far as to make up diseases and put up crowd-funding.
It is true that there are people stuck in horrible relationships, or whose children have real psychological problems. There are people who, through no fault of their own have money problems. There are people who have life-threatening and chronic diseases. And some folks with real problems do blog about them.
However, the Venn diagram of having a real problem and blogging about drama is not an “honest” and “raw” single circle. There’s overlap, but it is far from complete.
Drama posts can be just as fictional as “perfect” posts. And just as likely, some “perfect” bloggers are not lying about things going well for them. Honest writing and happy writing may be completely uncorrelated.
Your turn, Grumpeteers.