Imagine you’re standing in the middle of a see-saw, trying to keep either end from hitting the ground.
There’s a huge range of places to stand. Not just one. You don’t have to be at some mythical unstable sweetspot where the seats are perfectly even.
It’s the same way with balance in life. There’s a large continuum of places to stand, ways to be. There’s not just one optimal sweet-spot. There’s a lot of room for doing things differently and for trying things out.