How does a Gay woman in her mid forties date….when only a small part of her wants to date in the first place?
Great question. We’re both introverted, and near our mid-forties. But neither one of us is gay and neither one of us has dated for a long, looonnnnnng time. None of our lesbian friends have dated in a loooong time either (and yay marriage for those who want it!). Hetero people we know seem to mostly be using dating apps and going on lots of dates of various levels of fun vs. terrible (or have decided that they don’t want to date at all).
You might find some wisdom over at Captain Awkward.
Here’s a blog post that we did not write. Everything else google is giving me is either about people realizing they’re gay in their 40s or webpages for dating apps.
Do any grumpy readers have better advice for Anoninmass?